It is, indeed, a trial to maintain the virtue of humility when one can't help being right. Auteur: Judith Martin Copy Quote More from Judith Martin “DEAR MISS MANNERS:I a tired of being treated like a child. My father says it's …” “One reason that the task of inventing manners is so difficult is that etiquette…” “…women were brought up to have only one set of manners. A woman was either a la…” “When virtues are pointed out first, flaws seem less insurmountable.”