It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help. Auteur: Judith Martin Copy Quote More from Judith Martin “There are three possible parts to a date, of which at least two must be offered…” “DEAR MISS MANNERS:When does a gentleman offer his arm to a lady as they are wal…” “…women were brought up to have only one set of manners. A woman was either a la…” “College women are typically given to declaring for one or the other (in my day,…”