Bitter people are not interested in what you say, but what you hide. Auteur: Shannon L. Alder Copy Quote More from Shannon L. Alder “Defensiveness is usually someone silently screaming that they need you to value…” “Christ's version of kindness: I know you are hurt. I contributed to that. Maybe…” “Often people that tell others they are "extremely polite" when the situation ca…” “victimnoun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorde…”