Eating grapes with a knife and fork is not what one would call refined. It is what one would call ludicrous. Autor: Judith Martin Copy Quote More from Judith Martin “It is, indeed, a trial to maintain the virtue of humility when one can't help b…” “The rationale that etiquette should be eschewed because it fosters inequality d…” “Nowadays, we never allow ourselves the convenience of being temporarily unavail…” “It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your…”